Yesterday, my hubby was helping me fix something on my work laptop. He walked me through all the steps I needed to take—even though I kinda knew them already (LOL). Everything was going fine until suddenly; the program I was running didn’t show me the mouse pointer. For a moment, I thought, “WTH?” I felt a mix of frustration and amusement. I tried to remember other ways to solve the problem, but nothing worked right away. Then my hubby asked if I had a wired mouse. That made me laugh—who uses a wired mouse in 2025? Everything now is Bluetooth or wireless. His suggestion was funny, but it also made me realize how much technology has changed, and how sometimes the simple solutions aren’t even options anymore. And he mocks me a little bit.

When we were at the Zoom meeting, he mentioned that he hates Wi-Fi because it’s too slow. He prefers the reliability of a wired connection.

A day before, hubby called me. We were talking about some stuff that he dealt with. I’m not going to detail that, but those two things make me think about this post.

It’s funny how we don’t always realize who in our lives leans toward being a wireless person and who seeks that wired, dependable connection. Sometimes, the difference is subtle, but it shapes the way we interact and the kinds of support we look for.

By “wire person,” I mean someone who prefers genuine connection and collaboration. This is a person who values strong, steady relationships and working together. In contrast, a “wireless person”.

A “wireless person” is a connection where people meet briefly. They connect for an hour, a few days, or even a year. It is not for a lifetime. These connections often feel exciting at first. We sometimes jump in without recognizing how temporary or distant they become. They connect only when it’s convenient or necessary.
Wireless relationships can include friends, family members, romantic partners, or even our children. We get caught up in the energy of the moment. We do not realize how soon the connection will fade. It will eventually go offline.

Movies like Avatar and The Matrix illustrate this idea well. In these stories, characters experience powerful but sometimes short-lived connections. The sense of belonging and intensity can be overwhelming. Yet, those bonds often dissolve just as quickly as they formed. This mirrors how we sometimes feel deeply connected to someone for only a short period. Then, the relationship fades away.

Ultimately, the excitement of forming a wireless connection can cloud our judgment. We might confuse a fleeting bond with something more lasting, only to realize later how temporary it truly was.

My hubby loves wired connections. As a geek, I get it—they’re stronger, faster, and way more stable than Wi-Fi. Honestly, those are the qualities that matter in life too.

Wired internet connections are more stable and reliable than Wi-Fi. Similarly, strong relationships offer dependable support during difficult times. These relationships include those with family, friends, children, or a spouse. The stability of a wired connection mirrors the unwavering support found in these close bonds. When challenges arise, you know someone will be there to listen. They will help and steady you.

For example, when one family member is struggling, the strength of a wired family connection ensures support. Understanding is always available. If someone is feeling low or facing a setback, others in the relationship can give reassurance. They can offer advice or simply be a comforting presence. This connection doesn’t guarantee constant happiness. Still, it does offer the resilience and reliability to face life’s ups and downs together.

With this information, you can decide which connections in your life are wired and which are wireless.
But i will continue.

When I was a teenager, I had an awesome friend—seriously, the best. We did everything together. We grabbed lunch, had pillow fights, and went through ups and downs. We laughed until it hurt and even prayed side by side. He was like a brother, always there for me. We were pretty much inseparable until he decided to move on and follow what he felt was his calling. Before he left, he shared all his passion and knowledge with me so I can carry on.

Then one day, on his way home, he got in a car accident. He didn’t make it. I remember feeling completely lost, like a part of me was gone. I’ll be honest—I cried for months. That bond we had was real, and losing it hit me hard.

Those moments of loss deepen our awareness of what true connection means. They remind us that the bonds we forge shape our resilience. These connections, whether wired by loyalty and shared experience or wireless by fleeting circumstance, also influence our tenderness. As life moves forward, we realize the value in nurturing those steadfast relationships that anchor us. We must also stay open to new, unpredictable encounters that might bring joy, growth, or even challenge. In every connection, whether it endures or fades, there’s a lesson about our capacity to adapt and find meaning. It’s through this balance of stability and spontaneity that we discover which links in our personal network truly sustain us. Some connections, for all their brightness, are destined to flicker out.

We are humans; we need connections that make us happy and strong, helping us navigate life’s challenges. Some connections are wireless, while others are not.

Reflecting on the type of connections you seek can help you understand your needs and strengthen your relationships.

Life’s network isn’t just about how many connections you have, but about what kind they are.

Celebrate the wired ones for their reliability, and appreciate the wireless ones for their spontaneity. Both teach us to adapt, find meaning, and carry on the lessons and love we discover along the way.